Pillars of couples relationships
At the beginning of a love relationship, couples go through a romantic stage in which all their future expectations as a couple are built on their own idealized, fantastic and romantic expectations.
At this stage, lovers live in a dream in which everything is fantastic and wonderful, even those things they don’t like look beautiful to them.
When the couple decide to share a common life “together”, love and imagination diminish and the reality that until then they had not seen starts to become clearer. That’s when the couple begin to discover the difficulties of living with someone else.
Sharing a common space, sharing time and sharing much of what makes each person is not easy and requires time and effort.
Furthermore the fact that each individual has a world of its own and has lived different experiences entails, among other things, to share different points of view about the concept of relationship, marriage or roles in the family. The clash of ideas, beliefs and differences can harm the relationship and create a conflict.
It is important to talk with your partner and agree on the construction of solid pillars on which to stand and balance the relationship. Based on one’s own beliefs and experiences, each individual should propose their most significant aspects of a relationship. The couple must be committed to the relationship.
There are some basic pillars that foster a good relationship, they are basically these:
- Motivation (positive attitude towards the relationship).
- Affection and sexuality (give as well as receive and enjoy a healthy sex life).
- Communication (positive and balanced dialogue in search of solutions).
- Trust and respect (Respect and take care of the couple’s space and needs).
- Empathy (put yourself in the other person’s shoes and be comprehensive).
- Cooperate (share the tasks of life as a couple at all times).
Each partner can create the basis for their relationship from these six pillars and should always be aware of the effort involved in life as a couple. Remember that even if the relationship is at a good time it is important not to neglect it because situations are in constant change.
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